Episode 36: How to Talk with Aging Parents Who Won't Receive Help Graciously
How to Talk with Aging Parents Who Won't Receive Help Graciously
How do you care for a parent who doesn't want your care? This heartfelt and deeply practical conversation with Dr. Barry Jacobs, a clinical psychologist and national caregiving expert, dives into one of the most common and painful challenges families face: resistance. Whether you're already a caregiver or preparing for that role, this episode offers validation, expert advice, and hope.
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What you’ll learn in this episode
- Why many aging parents resist help, and how fear of lost identity plays a role
- How to open the conversation gently and build trust over time
- Ways to preserve dignity while planning for future care needs
- The importance of starting small with services to ease the transition
- How to navigate sibling dynamics and avoid caregiver burnout by caring for yourself too
Additional resources:
- Dr. Barry Jacobs
- Dr. Jacobs' website
- The AARP Caregiver Answer Book
- AARP Caregiver Resources
- ComForCare blog: Why Aging in Place is So Important for Seniors
Featured Guest
Dr. Barry Jacobs is a clinical psychologist, family therapist, and national caregiving expert with over 30 years of experience supporting families. He is the co-author of the AARP Caregiver Answer Book, a comprehensive guide to navigating caregiving with compassion and clarity. Dr. Jacobs is also a columnist for AARP.com and a frequent speaker and consultant on the emotional challenges of caregiving.
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About the Host
Tiffany Robinson is a passionate advocate for caregiver education. As the host of ComForConnections, she brings warmth, insight, and a deep understanding of the caregiving experience to every episode.
